Let me know, yo. I was just playing around with Kristin’s HP DV2 that HP gave to her. Pretty cool little laptop. It weighs nothing and is easy to use where ever you want. I am sure I will be making more videos. Kristin has me do them with her on her blog.
Do you see bubbles? I see bubbles!
October 21st, 2009Mommy Goggles – Why did you put a pin in my eye?
October 20th, 2009
Sorry Tanya Gordon, but I have one more post for you. Please read it when you can. I wanted to add the lie when you kept insisting and telling everyone you could that Kristin was a alcholic and “guzzled 3 glasses of wine (in your exact words.) I forgot about this and wanted to add it. Hey do you still have that picture from Hallmark of Kristin pregnant next to your friend Amanda’s wine?
Why don’t you speak up? You made blog posts about Kristin when she was not even saying anything about you, because she knew what your capable of. I have put all this out there, since I have ben there with Kristin through all this crap. Now that I had to tell her story , you say I am a stalker and bully. I am not even going to say it, but you are a word that starts with the letter “h.”
The fact that you tried to fight and belittle Kristin throughout her pregnancy this last year speaks volumes. You really made her feel like shit when you and your group of blogger friends (great group of mommy bloggers) would go around and convince new bloggers to choose sides and put Kristin down and stay away from her blog. You did this on and off or maybe “always,” and you were OK with it. Then you had the nerve to try and get your friends to take a candid picture (i am talking about under the arm or a sweater, like undercover) of her next to wine at the Hallmark event months back. Then your friend posted the pic on twitpic and you all started making lies that she “guzzles” lots of alcohol while pregnant (some pregnant people do drink a glass of wine here and there, nothing wrong.) and even posted it on your blog, which you have taken down because I had to go around proving your wrong. You had her in tears (she was almost due and here is someone going to the same community of Mommy Bloggers she is in, saying she is a drunk and making her out to be a bad mom) because she knows how much you would make an effort to spread this lie and use your influence to make more people choose a side. You told everyone that she was a drunk with her pregnant baby. Real nice. How low can you go.
Oh wait, you can go lower. A couple months back you told a PR firm, and who knows who else, lies about Kristin. I know of 1 company that took your word, without even talking to her. You told one company that Kristin told you things, which is impossible because you 2 dont even talk. But you even lied about that. You know which company I am talking about. I made a comment on your blog with the name, which you did not post. You should come out and say your side…just to make it clear.
I know many bloggers out there are being forced to take sides, but just imagine if you were in Kristin’s shoes. I know everyone thinks she is a nobody, but she was blogging more than 3 years ago. She has been working with major players for years now and even worked with Tanya and Trisha before they did review or modot was around. All she did was help them, then they stabbed her in the back when she wouldn’t be their bitch. She has never ever tried to hurt anyone. She maybe cannot spend all day on the net, but that is partly because of me. She has a family to help with and home to help with also. I know everyone does, but maybe you can all manage your time better.
I just wish there could be an end to this bitter divide, but like everything there has to be opposing sides. Kristin does not hold anything against anyone, and like she tells me, she never has made anyone choose sides. But Trisha Haas and Tanya Gordon, 2 bloggers who have come up together in the last year, both work together to put down Kristin’s blog and make people not like her. They are in their mid 30’s and they pick on a 24 year old mother of 2 little girls. Kristin is a full-time mommy, blogger, and goes to college full-time, so she does no have as much time as Tanya and Trisha. But she does her thing, and stills has to figure why things all of a sudden change and then comes to find out some other blogger is out there trying to make things hard for you. It is not fair that the blogosphere turns this way. I guess there are no rules, so anything goes.
That is pretty much everything that you have done that I think is messed up. I have pretty much said it all so I shouldn’t be writing about this anymore.
Is this a good example of plagiarism?
October 20th, 2009There is a blogger out there that has this notion that she created blogging. Here is her post: http://www.mommygoggles.com/about-me/review-faqs/plagiarism/. Fraud and plagiarism have different meanings, that is why they are different words with different meanings.
She links to an email where Kristin said she “sort of copied your post.” This was at a time when they were working together using the same press releases and all. So is that plagiarism? She said “sort of”, that does not mean she copied it exactly. She used the same pictures that Tanya also used, which were the property of someone else (did Tanya even get permission to use the images?) Great proof to go along with great accusations. I love how certain bloggers are allowed to run around typing and saying what they want. But me telling the truth is stalking or bully, or better yet “attacking.”
Check her blog and search “Kristin“. She took some of the lies out of her blog, but her one-sided stories are there. She will not reply to anything I have said, and will not reply because maybe she has a little dignity to realize how much of a piece of work she was. Probably not.
Our Recent Trip to Southern California with D3Publisher
October 17th, 2009I was lucky enough to be invited along with my family to Southern California for the premier of a couple of video games, a personal tour of a video game design studio, a live martial arts show, and a private screening of soon to be released movie…
D3Publisher invited Kristin and was even nice enough to allow the whole family to attend. They flew us in to SoCal and provided us stay at the Loews of Santa Monica, CA. This was a nice beachside resort with walking access to shopping, the beach, and the famous Pacific Park on the Santa Monica Pier.
Papaya Studios
We started the next morning after a good nights rest with a trip to Papaya Studios in Irvine, Ca. We were given a tour and broken into groups for face-to-face time with the developers and designers. They explained to us the processes in game development and showed us a little on how they graphically make them. It was cool, to actually see the raw development, and to think that one day all of it will be put on a disc and playable in my Xbox 360, Wii, or Playstation 3. They explained the importance of working directly with the cartoon studios that actually make the shows that the games are based off to keep the realism between the show and game. We were also given a chance to try their new Ben-10 (this link also has one of our excellent hosts for the trip, Fernando) video game which will be available for all major video game systems.
House of Champions
After this we were taken to the world famous House of Champions to see a martial arts demo with Matt Mullins from Kamen Rider which airs on Cartoon Network. There was a hiccup in the trip at this point, so they had to cut the martial arts short. We got to see a couple of big kick flip moves and such which was cool to see. By this time I think a lot of kids were needed some calm time so it worked out.
Dick Clark Studio
We were then shuttled to Dick Clark Studio where we were introduced to an executive producer of the game Astro-Boy. He gave us some insight on the game and how they tied the game into the movie and how they also added to give a more to adventure into. After this we were given some time to try the game then we were ushered into a private screening room to present Astro Boy. I had been wondering up till this point if Astro Boy was related to Mega Man. I am sure there is history that connects them somewhere and it would be interesting to find out. We were then explained that Astro Boy had been around for over 50 years which can be seen by the way he looks and acts. He does have that Big Boy image, and very polite manners. Life is interesting, when things connect. So we watched the movie and I thought it was great. I was into it, and the kids were to. This is good because I got to enjoy it with minimal distractions. Its a great story and had good humor.
That concluded our tour. We were also provided with food, video games, entertainment, and a good time.
We went back to the hotel and let Kai play with her cousins in the pool till bed time. We woke up the next day and went and spent out remaining time at the Santa Monica Pier amusement part. We got in a good 5 hours till it was time to leave for our flight. Talk about a good time. This was a great trip and what more could one ask for. A trip to a beautiful place with a whole day of exciting and awesome things to do.
Community vs. Clique & We vs. They. What about yourself?
October 17th, 2009
I want to write out my view on my above mentioned title. Where do you as an internet patron place yourself? Do you fall in the “community” vs “clique“ category, or maybe the “we” vs. “they?” Most likely everyone visits websites that play into their interests. I do like to surf and see what I come across. In my limited blogosphere surfing experience, I have noticed trends that I think everyone can pretty much accept. My thoughts do apply to the real world, but works very well with the net life.
A community is a group of people who come together to help each other in common causes. I do not place being hostile to others outside your community as part of the community definition. I use the term clique because this is another group that can be placed and almost attached to a community but finds themselves to be exclusive of those who are not them. Anyone who finds others inferiors to their exclusivity will show natural hostility to anything that is foreign to them. And if you read about me, and you know I believe in equality. So this is why I ask “are you part of a community or a clique?”
A Clique to me is a group of people who basically think they are better then others for their own reasons. A keyword here is ‘own’ because they have no regard for anyone or anything that is not them or as they would say “our” or “we.”
So the next point I bring up is “we” vs. “they.” I understand this simple statement, but I want to tell you where I came upon it. I was reading a book titled World Politics and came across this paragraph:
When people identify with groups, they become differentiated from people not in those groups. Much of what occurs in world politics boils down to this separation of “we” and “they.” They are different; they are not normal; are inferior in some way, are dangerous. They always want something that we have. Can they be trusted? What do they really want?
Have you thought of people as “we” and “they?” There is nothing wrong with admitting that you have thought this way in reference on how you react to certain people. When I was younger I was arrogant and many ways cocky. I am a little more humbled then most, but I can admit to thinking in the “we” and “they” sense. However, I try to think beyond that, and I feel that this can help people in some way. The above referenced piece refers to developed works on the study of human sociology.
I was recently on a blogging trip in SoCal. I did feel tension from a couple of bloggers on the trip due to the problems I had with Tanya www.mommygoogles.com. I had let the world know about my(our) dealings with her and her newly found clique at momdot.com. I really need to combine all my posts on her into one, and make it all a little more clear on my point, but I am too busy for the moment.
I did not think that I would ever have to actually write it all out like it would do anything, but since I started a blog, I can do as I want. She has lied to many times and I have to call her out on it. Her friends; or I should say clique. thought they were hurting my feelings with their behind-the-back-posts (this is where someone is talking about you, but wont say your name.) I guess they thought I was going to be hurt by the thought of some 30 year old women ‘typing’ me names. Did they want me to go and hide under a rock, I don’t think I am strong enough to move a rock big enough to cover me.
There are millions of people on the net, and I think allowing newcomers some insight on the “politics” or better said “bullshit” of blogging, especially when it comes to certain cliques, should be known. There are many people out there, and a large handful of bloggers that walk (or type or twitter) around like they are better then others. Sure they got into the game sooner, but anyone can create a blog. And with blogging, I would think personality is something that people should/would desire. I may be completely wrong.
So I just thought I would spend a little time to explain my point of view on the topic I have presented. I do think outside the box, but then again I am my own person.
Anyone have any input? Or does no one have a voice or I mean fingers? Regardless; peace, love, and hair grease.
The things that make us happy
October 15th, 2009You ever have something that just puts a smile on your face every time you look at it or touch it.
I remember when I was about 20 years old. I really did not have a parental support structure around me, so I had to work hard for anything I wanted. So at about 20 years old, I had finally worked hard enough to buy myself a a brand new 2000 Honda Civic Si (this model cost about $5,000 more than the other models and had about 35+ more horsepower and many other upgrades than the regular civic.) This car was a some-what limited car, due to the fact all US civics were weak compared to Japanese and other country civics.) I even ended up paying $2000 over MSRP, because it was a demand item.
I remember after buying it, every time I would drive it I would get giddy. It felt good because I earned it.
So what is my point. Material items just don’t cut it anymore. One of my goals when I am older is to buy an exotic sports car, but that is far from now. Until then I have my babies who both give me joy. The day can be going bad, but all I have to do is look at them. Here is my inspiration for this post.
Columbia's Drug cartel problems in Medellin, Columbia
October 14th, 2009I was watching CNN this morning and got on their site to share will all a segment they had on a cancer patient in Texas who’s power company was going to shut off her power which powers her life oxygen support system.
But I got sidetracked on Columbia’s Drug cartel problems in Medellin. You can check out all stories here on CNN which I highly suggest. This is a world wide problem that is far-reaching and all need to be aware.
My experience with breastfeeding
October 8th, 2009
I did a post some while back on my thoughts of breastfeeding. Since then, my thoughts have changed to knowledge which has led to valuable insight on the differences. When I get baby duties (me, the baby, and maybe Kai only) I have noticed a complete change in Brooklin between eating breastmilk and formula. I am sure that her being breastfed all the time and the fact that I have only had to feed her formula several times plays a big part and she may not be used to it, but there is a difference.
The very first time I had to use formula, was when Kristin took a trip a couples months back. Kristin did not leave me with enough breast milk for 3 days so I had to use formula. I started off using the formula during the days and the BM at night. Actually the first night was a formula night which was dreadful. Not only was she adjusting to the formula (which she had never had to do) but that night I used formula to make my supply of BM last the next days. The next nights I used breastmilk which actually allowed me to get some sleep (I need my 8 hours.) Also it seemed that during the days when using formula, she was not the same little Bookie.
Lets Fast forward to the present. For the past 2 weeks, Kristin has been in class twice a week for 8 hours a day. I have baby duty during these hours, which is fine by me as long as I have 2 oz. of BM for every 2 hours that Kristin is gone. Its nice to have the regular Brooklin when its just me and her. However, Brooklin loves her mommy’s boob and “the good stuff” more than anything.
I noticed the difference of her being fed BM v. formula is like night and day or a better way to put it, happy and sad. Oh, and before people start with comments, my 4 year old was formula fed (breastfed for first several months of her life) so I do not think anyone is better then anyone else before some try to make it out like I am thinking or insinuating that. I do know that it is easier to have a breast fed baby, because the only time I really have to feed is if I am on baby duty plus there are no bottles to clean.
I would never mock anyone for either method, because I am not like that. But I am saying, if your deciding if its worth it and you have the means and time, then try it out for an extended period and decide for yourself.
Thank you for reading
October 8th, 2009
So after all this I have been putting people through, I want to give away a $20 gift card of your choice. I will run this giveaway for 1 week. Leave me a comment showing that you tweeted the giveaway. Make sure you are following me on twitter and I will do the same.
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Also, please feel free to read through my blog. I give my honest opinion and I tell it how it is. Anyways, thanks to all and I will keep it interesting.
Loves, Hugs, Kisses, Farts, & Barfs!
October 8th, 2009
I am sure most of you know what this is in response to. Who doesn’t love paparazzi? When will I get my fame? That is my version of a Trisha @momdot.com video. Her video she made was about me, so I did one about her.
Here Thrasha, here is the traffic you say you love:
http://www.momdot.com/paparazzi/
Hopefully I am not spammed with comments from blocked IPs.
Oh and it is taking me more time to get this damn makeup off then it did to make the video before the haters try to chime in.
